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my turn
now that i'm once again awake (thanks to a certain unknown moronic imbecile), i have become inspired by val's pre-date questionnaire. so here's mine:

1. who do you think should decide how many kids to have (if any) and why?
2. do you believe in god or a god-like entity? if not, why? (if you don't, and don't have a reason, you can stop answering questions now)
3. do you live within a 2-mile radius of me?
4. why do you want to date me? (again, if you don't have a reason, don't bother going further)
5. what do you see as your biggest personal flaw?
6. what do you see as my biggest personal flaw? (not applicable if you've known me for less than a month. if you've known me longer than that but have no answer for this one, you are either delusional or lying)
7. what do you have to offer me that i can't achieve with a vibrator and some good yaoi?
8. if i got accepted to a prestigious graduate school far away from you, would you try to follow me there? would you force a breakup? why?
9. do you have any history of mental or physical problems that i should be aware of?
10. have you ever cheated on someone you were in a relationship with? why?
11. would you have a problem with me having a crush on anime and/or fictional characters?
12. once we have an established relationship, would you wear a dress as part of sex play if i asked? if not, why not?
13. what are your 5 most important criteria for a good neighborhood to live in?
14. am i really beautiful, or is that something you say to get me in bed with you?
15. name something that is representative of something you would never do for someone, even if you loved them.

i think that's it. but i bet no one answers mine cuz i'm not as popular as val :(
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From: lobotomymonkey Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 01.57 (UTC) (Link)
Alright, I'll bite. Heh.

1) That is the kind of decision that takes two people to make. What do you mean, "why?" ? No decision that involves two people so directly should be made by one of those people.

2) I believe in some sort of god, which each religion visualizes in their own way but none are right. Or I believe in a pantheon, where every religion is right. Or I believe in alien things from another dimension which we can't directly interact with, but which have a significant effect on our world. I'm not sure. But there's some weird shit going on, and I'm not about to explain it all away with science. Maybe it's the Mothmen.

3) I live within a 2-country radius of you.

4) Because you have big boobs. Duh.

5) I kinda get a little obsessive about things sometimes. And I'm often too honest for my own good.

6) You fantasize about men in dresses. And cartoon characters. :)

7) I'll cuddle with you afterwards.

8) Follow your heart, follow your mind. You do whatever you want to do. I'll deal.

9) Nothing clinically diagnosed :)

10) Never. I'm as loyal as a puppy. I have, though, been on the other side of cheating, twice now. One was intentional. But both were odd stories.

11) See #6. I would have as serious a problem with it, as your crush was serious. Make sense? I also get a little bit jealous to begin with.

12) See #6. It would take a long time and a lot of emotional investment before I'd even consider doing such a thing. It's not high on my priority list to wear women's clothing.

13) Assuming you're talking about a neighborhood to live in on a more permanent basis, in a long-term relationship setting,... I'd like a neighborhood that's safe to raise kids in. And I think that covers alot more than 5 criteria. And it's true whether or not I actually had kids with my SO.

14) You're beautiful, Kym. You don't need anyone to tell you that, and it doesn't have to have any sexual or romantic implications.

15) I wouldn't change my religion. Surprising, yes, considering my answer to #2, but when it became an issue in the past, I thought about it. I'll be as agnostic and non-practicing a Jew as you want me to be, but I have no compelling urge to become anything else.

ang_grrr From: ang_grrr Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 02.40 (UTC) (Link)
1. if someone really doesn't want kids then you know, I think it is something that if you plan too earnestly, can lead to disappointment. Does that make sense.
2. I point to the answer I gave Val. I do believe that there is a unifying force that surrounds all life. I express this as a belief in God. I think humans need to feel a sense of community and I get mine from my religion.
3. Hell no
4. Well, in my case it would have to be very poor disco lighting or a very serious change in lifestyle choice.
5. I have very little patience with people who do not behave to my standards.
6. I'm not sure, although looking at the comment at the end of this quiz I think a lack of self confidence
7. Chocolate
8. I don't think so
9. I previously suffered from an eating disorder
10. I've caused other people to cheat. I think that is worse. I'm not proud of it.
11. nope
12. erm, not really a difficult question to answer
13. a sense of community, an diverse population, close proximity to entertainment, streets safe to walk on and being in England :)
14. I think everyone is beautiful, in their own way. (that's not saying you are unattractive, but I don't want val to get jealous :))
15. Lie in court for them.
raditzsex From: raditzsex Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 05.40 (UTC) (Link)
Are you saying I'm not attractive?
ang_grrr From: ang_grrr Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 08.36 (UTC) (Link)
no
raditzsex From: raditzsex Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 03.58 (UTC) (Link)
1. who do you think should decide how many kids to have (if any) and why?
Me, because I'm older.

2. do you believe in god or a god-like entity? if not, why?
Yes

3. do you live within a 2-mile radius of me?
Not anymore.

4. why do you want to date me?
you're single... i'm single... need I say more?

5. what do you see as your biggest personal flaw?
Narcissism

6. what do you see as my biggest personal flaw?
Narcissism

7. what do you have to offer me that i can't achieve with a vibrator and some good yaoi?
My incredible wit

8. if i got accepted to a prestigious graduate school far away from you, would you try to follow me there? would you force a breakup? why?
No, no, because I'm not movin.

9. do you have any history of mental or physical problems that i should be aware of?
NOTHING'S EVER BEEN DIAGNOSED. Nothing!!!!

10. have you ever cheated on someone you were in a relationship with? why?
I don't remember. But if I did, it's cuz they started it.

11. would you have a problem with me having a crush on anime and/or fictional characters?
Only if it's *my* anime/fictional characters.

12. once we have an established relationship, would you wear a dress as part of sex play if i asked? if not, why not?
no way - I don't do dresses :D

13. what are your 5 most important criteria for a good neighborhood to live in?
pizza, chinese, a good video store, more chinese, whataburger.

14. am i really beautiful, or is that something you say to get me in bed with you?
umm.... yes?

15. name something that is representative of something you would never do for someone, even if you loved them.
anything involving pee.
ajr From: ajr Date: Saturday 2nd February 2002 06.42 (UTC) (Link)
1) It should be a joint decision, 'cause it has a mjor effect on both people in the relationship.
2) No, I don't. There's no rational reason why there should be a 'higher being' of any sort.
3) No.
4) You have nice breasts.
5) Probably the fact that I'm insecure and obsessive (although I can hide the latter well).
6) The fact that you have crushes on anime characters. =)
7) Cunnilingus.
8) I believe that if someone loves someone enough, they should be willing to do whatever it takes to stay together. And if that means moving or following someone, than so be it. Even if it doesn't work out and it ends in a breakup anyway, one should at least try.
9) Nothing's been officially diagnosed on the mental side. As for the physical side, I am deaf, but anyone reading should be aware of that one already.
10) No. It's not right.
11) It's a little freaky.
12) Erm, maybe.
13) Cable area, low crime rate, cable area, proximity to shops, cable area.
14) I never say what I don't mean when giving compliments.
15) Tricky question. I can't really say what I'd never do unless I'm put on the spot by being asked about specific things, 'cause the things I'd never do probably don't occur to me until someone else says them. I say 'never' to specific things, not theoretical things. If that makes any sense.
From: _jamez_ Date: Saturday 16th February 2002 14.16 (UTC) (Link)
1. who do you think should decide how many kids to have (if any) and why?

It should be a mutualish desision but whoever's life is most effected after the first one would probably play the bigger part in judging whether to have more. I think its more of an "as you go along" kind of question rather than a "before you start" kind of question. Definatly you should not decide how many kids to have until you've at least had one.

2. do you believe in god or a god-like entity? if not, why? (if you don't, and don't have a reason, you can stop answering questions now)

I beleive in another dimension that contains souls that can sometimes influence or interact with our own dimensions and that we may pass into this other dimension when we die. I don't really beleive in a single defined god entity as I don't think one single person of being can have that much power. The nearest thing for me is some collection of spirits or souls together making a collective being.

3. do you live within a 2-mile radius of me?

Not in this specific space time continuum, but possibly in others.

4. why do you want to date me? (again, if you don't have a reason, don't bother going further)

You're sense of humour points the right way up, you're breasts are funny, your body is intelectual and your mind is foxy.

5. what do you see as your biggest personal flaw?

Acting silly so as to be humourous so as to stop being nervous around awkward silences. That and smoking when drunk and being nervous around strangers.

6. what do you see as my biggest personal flaw? (not applicable if you've known me for less than a month. if you've known me longer than that but have no answer for this one, you are either delusional or lying)

I'm delusional.

7. what do you have to offer me that i can't achieve with a vibrator and some good yaoi?

Foreplay and not looking incredibly effeminate!

8. if i got accepted to a prestigious graduate school far away from you, would you try to follow me there? would you force a breakup? why?

I probably wouldn't follow you as.. well I'd want to offer you some independance. Whether I'd force a breakup would depend to the extent of the relationship at that time as to how much you felt you could trust me and whether it was strong enough to cope with the long distance. If I thought it wasnt strong enough and the distance would cause too much pain I'd break it off for both our sakes.

9. do you have any history of mental or physical problems that i should be aware of?

Homosexuality.

10. have you ever cheated on someone you were in a relationship with? why?

No, Only been in one relationship so not much opertunity to do so. I like to think I'd be very faithfull though.

11. would you have a problem with me having a crush on anime and/or fictional characters?

I have absolutely no problem with you having a crush on something that resembles a female, infact its behavior I'd encourage!

12. once we have an established relationship, would you wear a dress as part of sex play if i asked? if not, why not?

Only if I got you to satisfy a sexual fantasy for me!

Tit for tat!

13. what are your 5 most important criteria for a good neighborhood to live in?

Not in the middle of nowhere

Proximity to nice Bars/Restaurants

Proximity to a shop that sells a reasonable range of gorceries

Quick and Easy to get into the city centre by public transport

Aesthetically nice looking area

14. am i really beautiful, or is that something you say to get me in bed with you?

both

15. name something that is representative of something you would never do for someone, even if you loved them.

Decide between them and another person I loved
From: _jamez_ Date: Saturday 16th February 2002 14.29 (UTC) (Link)
Question 9 should have the word "former" infront of it, by the way!!!
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